I awoke this morning to a text message from Brian Vanderhoof: he (well actually his wife) had a baby this morning.
Normally, I'd be full of joy (because I love babies) but I found my response to this message being a "Oh" kind of response. (Let me catch people up--I dated Brian on and off for about three years...we were engaged twice). I'm not sure if that's a normal response or what. I don't even know why I'm writing this in here.
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I think that's totally normal. Are you guys even still friends? If not, that's kind of weird. I'd probably be taken aback as well.
I mean, for quite some time, you were the one that was planning on being the mother of his children (if you two were considering having children). It's normal to be weirded out by this news.
But I pray you believe you've grown and are in a better place now (I don't know why it ended, but I trust your judgment).
I love you Malinda!
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